Gui Mei.            Marrying Maiden       You'll attain your goal  in several steps. First  you must show restraint  and patience. Choose one or two things out of all your concerns and        concentrate on them.     Don't speed up, and don'tprocrastinate; otherwise you'll lose your chances.Be especially careful in love affairs. Avoid      getting involved in any  conflicts. Don't scorn   the advice of others.    Your wish will not be    accomplished just yet.